Even Adults Deal with Bullies

OK..so here I go again…it’s about bullies.  Imagine that…

I have a situation.  It’s cut and dry in my mind. I simply get in their face tell them to F off and feel better – NOT REALLY.  I just don’t know what to do about it.  The first time, I just tucked my tail and ran…went away….the bullies eventually followed.  This time…I don’t want to “tuck my tail” … I did go away again…but I want to stand up to them. I want to let them know … I KNOW what they have done – AGAIN – and while I am going to go away – it’s not because they won – it’s because I refuse to allow them to be blessed with our presence…being associated with them brings ME and MY FAMILY down!!

This is a situation that makes me so mad I actually want to cause harm to them.  I want them to hurt 10x more than they hurt my feelings.  I have done NOTHING but be nice and civil.  I have listened to them playing both sides, I have taken their ugly looks, snarls and watched them bring an entire soccer team down to complete strangers.  YES..it’s SOCCER parents!!

My husband found the lyrics to this song…he thought it was appropriate:

“This Means War”

Climb into the ring for a battle that you can’t win
Swing as hard as you can swing, it will still mean nothing
Should’ve seen it coming
It had to happen sometime
But you went and brought a knife
To an all out gun fight

And the only thing to save
Is the banner that you wave
To be wrapped around your grave

You’ve gone too far
(get up, get up)
Who do you think you are
(get up so we can finish this)
Is this what you came for
(get up, get up)
Well this means war
(get up so we can finish this)

Say anything you want
But talk will get you nowhere
The only thing you’ve brought was psychological warfare
Well there’s no getting out
And now you got to wonder
Who will dig you out when you’re six feet under

And the only thing to save
Is the banner that you wave
To be wrapped around your grave

You’ve gone too far
(get up, get up)
Who do you think you are
(get up so we can finish this)
Is this what you came for
(get up, get up)
Well this means war
(get up so we can finish this)

And the only thing to save
Is the banner that you wave
To be wrapped around your grave

You’ve gone too far
(get up, get up)
Who do you think you are
(get up so we can finish this)
Is this what you came for
(get up, get up)
Well this means war
(get up so we can finish this)

Well this means war

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